Every month and every day seems to have some sort of meaning these days. Some to bring awareness and others just for fun. From National Ice Cream Day to Breast Cancer Awareness these days and months can become bothersome to us or provide a great opportunity for action. November happens to be National Adoption Awareness Month with an honorary statement by the President himself. This month has historcially been filled with Adopted Parents and Agencies voices, so using the Lost Daughters Prompts for the month of November I hope to get some tweets and some writing in. I have been pretty silent lately, and as much as it scares me to dig in some more, I’m hoping I can find some more healing through it.
So below are some of the reasons I #flipthescript:
I #flipthescript to connect with a community of fellow adoptees who get it.
I #flipthescript because saying out loud how I feel about being adopted has its own healing effect.
I #flipthescript because for 31 years I was mostly silent about what was going inside and it deserves to be said.
I #flipthescript because I’ve been asked if the adoption community put negative thoughts about my adoption into my head. No, I have not been brainwashed, but I have been validated.
I #flipthescript because a friend was able to let her adopted friend really share the hard stuff because of what she had learned from me.
I #flipthescript because a professional counselor sent me a message asking for resources so she could better understand her adopted clients.
I #flipthescript because when I speak out, others can gain courage to do the same.
I #flipthescript because I want adoptive parents to understand that they must not be afraid of their child’s thoughts and feelings about their adoption.
I #flipthescript because I want birth parents to understand that no matter the motives behind their decisons to not parent or their inability to make that choice, it hurts.
I #flipthescript to help others understand the lack of rights adoptees face as they desire to know who they are.
I #flipthescript to make change.
I #flipthescript to make adoption better.
I #flipthescript for me.